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Most communicators get aha moments wrong

They think an aha is the reward for building this flawless argument.

Neatly stacked.
Logically airtight.

And sure, logic matters. People need to understand what you’re saying.

But.

Understanding is not enough. It’s only half the deal.

The other half is how it feels.

Does it resonate? Does it feel like it belongs in their world, not just in your head?

The real aha moment is when those two sides snap together.
When it makes sense and it feels right.
When the gut screams “yes” and the mind marvels at how it all just falls into place.

That’s when the penny drops.
That’s when the light bulb goes on.

You’re missing out if you focus on the rational side alone.

And honestly, chances are you’ll never truly move anyone.

Because most people don’t live in arguments.
They live in feelings, ambitions, and (yes) fears.
If you don’t reach them at this level, you won’t reach them at all.

But reach them at both levels and the aha is almost inevitable.

Keep lighting the path,
Michael

The AHA Effect Explained

This is something I’ve been meaning to do for years. And many of you have asked me to. So, here it is.

What if your presentation created an aha so strong, people walked out seeing things in completely new light?

That’s the power of the aha effect. It’s what my first book The AHA Effect was all about. That moment where a problem suddenly feels simple. Where confusion turns into clarity. Where people not only understand you, but see the world differently because of what you said.

Unfortunately, the book itself is only in German, but for years many of you have asked me for an English version.

Well, it’s still not there but I’ve put together something that comes very close.

I’ve created a 15 min video of the book’s core ideas, the very essence of the AHA effect.

Full disclosure: This video is AI generated by Google’s NotebookLM (except for the intro and outro which I recorded afterwards). The ideas are mine, but the words and voices you’ll hear later in the video are not. I wanted to try this format to make the ideas accessible to you in the simplest way possible.

I think it turned out pretty great and I hope it has some aha moments for you, too.

Let me know how you like it. What was the most unexpected insight for you?

Keep lighting the path,
Michael

Does your message need more bang?

Your message doesn’t need to be more powerful.
It needs to be more obvious.

If people don’t act, the instinct is usually to add more bang to the message and crank up the volume:
→ Make it fancy.
→ Make it spectacular.
→ Make it “Wow.”

The only problem is that fancy doesn’t mean clear.
And spectacular doesn’t mean actionable.

The thing is:
People don’t act on “Wow.”
They act on “Aha.”

They move forward when the message clicks so naturally that it feels like their own thought.

When they hear it and think, “Of course.”

Most of the great communicators I’ve worked with couldn’t care less about dazzling people.

They wanted their words so clear that action feels undeniable.

What if you stopped chasing the fanciness of “Wow”
and started aiming for the clarity of “Aha”?

Keep lighting the path!

More than fun

Wow is fun.
Aha is fundamental.

Wouldn’t you agree that one of them is more fun than the other?

What do you think?

Keep lighting the path!

Glitter and glam

A powerful message doesn’t need backup dancers or flashy props. It stands alone, clear and strong.

Here’s a simple test:
When you strip away the extras, what’s left?

If your message is strong, it will still resonate.
If it’s weak, it will now crumble.

That’s precisely why some believe that a little glitter will make up for a weak message.

But adding glitter won’t make your message strong,
it only distracts from the weaknesses.

Superficial wow elements will never make up for a missing aha.

On the other hand, once your message is strong enough to stand on its own, then adding the wow can amplify its impact manifold.

In other words, when you have a strong message, skillfully composed, the extras aren’t there to distract from the message, they are there to serve the message.

PS: Reach out if you need help finding that strong message.

An earthquake of an aha

Many people think about aha moments as these sudden flashes of brilliance, much like a lightning bolt from the sky.

But I tend to think that it’s much more like an earthquake, where there’s a lot happening beneath the surface before that moment of revelation.

When you think about it like this, you realize that it’s actually not really what you say that creates the aha, but much more what the audience feels when they finally connect the dots.

You’ve planted the seeds in their minds, but it was their brains who made them bloom.

What this also means is that the best aha moments happen when you don’t over explain, when you leave them the space to make their own leaps, when you give them time to let it brew up to that moment where it finally erupts.

Have you tried that?

Wow your audience as much as you can, but …

There’s way too much emphasis on the WOW effect, and way too little on the AHA effect.

It sometimes feels like the whole communication industry is obsessed with the WOW effect.

While I don’t see much talk about the AHA effect.

But.

What use is it when your audience cheers for “What a great show it’s been!” when what you actually want them to cheer for is “what a great idea that is!”

Don’t get me wrong. Wow your audience as much as you can.

But keep in mind that WOW only opens the mind. It’s the AHA that changes the mind.

What’s your take on WOW vs. AHA?

The missing half of communication

There’s so much focus on how our audiences think that the second half of communication is often overlooked:

How does the audience feel?

Too many speakers only focus on the rational aspects.

They include more arguments,
find better reasons,
provide more data,
etc.

But ignore how all of that makes the audience feel.

The AHA moment happens when the emotional and the rational click into place, when it feels right and the brain agrees. Is that the case for your audience? Do you speak to both?

Even with a strong, logical case, it’s important to consider the emotional journey your audience undergoes. You’re missing out if you only speak to the rational side.

So how does your audience feel?  What do you want them to feel?

And how do you shape your communication to achieve that?

A great show

WOW opens the mind.
AHA changes the mind.

So much advice on public speaking focuses on the WOW effect.

How to turn the spotlight onto yourself.
How to put on a great show.
How to dazzle your audience.

But do you want your audience to cheer for your great performance or for the brilliance of your idea?

If it’s the latter, then WOW will only get you half the way.

To get all the way, consider turning the spotlight around and onto your audience.

Sure, put on a great show if that’s your thing. But make your audience the star of the show.

And shine a bright light. Yet not to dazzle but to light your audience the path to a profound insight.

It’s so much more fun.
It’s so much more worthwhile.

Best of all, AHA moments tend to last longer than WOW moments.

What’s your take on this?

Relevance beats elegance

If I can’t relate to a speaker’s words, it doesn’t matter how beautiful their slides are, how elaborate their body language is, or how creative their storytelling is.

It might be nice but it’s also pointless.

If, on the other hand, they manage to make it highly relevant, I will tolerate an ugly slide or two and a little nervousness.

In other words, work on your story’s relevance before you begin to work on the show.

The good news is that when it’s relevant, a great show will only amplify the impact.

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