Leaders Light The Path

PODCAST EPISODE

Steering conversations with a quiet authority

How a subtle, but profound technique can steer a meeting in a whole new direction … 

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Transcript
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Welcome to the “Irresistible

Communication” podcast.

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Two minutes, twice a week.

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No nonsense advice for

leadership communication.

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Think of the last time you were in

a high stakes negotiation or debate.

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Recall that heated moment

when suddenly someone paued,

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intentionally, before responding.

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That pause filled with contemplation

can turn the whole conversation around.

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It forces everyone to

listen more intently.

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In it's hush, priorities get

realigned, arguments get refined.

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It's interesting, isn't it?

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In our fast paced business

world, where immediacy is

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often equated with competence.

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The value of pausing, of truly reflecting

before speaking can be overlooked.

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I sat in countless board rooms and I've

observed that leaders who master this

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subtle art of pausing tend to steer

conversations with a quiet authority.

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It's not about withholding

opinions or playing games.

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It's about giving oneself that

brief moment to process, to ensure

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that the words that follow are

both, deliberate and valuable.

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Incorporating this simple yet

profound habit in our communication

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can create a ripple effect.

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It encourages others to do the same.

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Imagine a boardroom where every

contribution is thoughtful.

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Where the space between words is

filled with reflection, not tension.

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Such environments foster deeper

understanding and, ultimately,

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more meaningful outcomes.

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Now, I'm not suggesting that every

sentence be followed by a lengthy silence.

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It's about recognizing those

pivotal moments, those crossroads

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in a conversation where a pause

can light the path forward.

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So, the next time your amidst

a crucial dialogue, whether in

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the board room or beyond, give

yourself the grace of that pass.

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Let it amplify your intent,

refine your words and lead you

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toward more genuine connections.

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Keep lighting the path and

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