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Isn't it interesting how listen and silent are anagrams? Makes it feel like they are two sides of the same thing. And in a way, I think they are. When you listen intently, you become silent. And likewise only when you are silent, can you truly listen. But there's more to that. When you remain silent, even if it's just a little longer, you'll pick up nuances that you would miss if you broke the silence. I find it fascinating how much we can learn if we simply stay silent for a second longer and let the other person continue talking. Silent is how we pay attention. Silent is how we allow others to open up in a conversation. Silent is how we give the space for their words to unfold naturally. And silent is how we reflect on what is being said. In other words, silent is how we listen for what's really going on. Have you experienced those moments where silence improved your comunication? Why not try it out in your next conversation? Just stay silent for one second longer. And see what happens. Keep lighting the path. And share this with a friend.