Resistance is the universal force that keeps you from doing things. It’s a great compass. But be careful which direction it points.
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Resistance is the universal force that keeps you from doing things.
Speaker:However, there's an important distinction about two very
Speaker:different types of resistance.
Speaker:The first is knowing that you need to do something.
Speaker:But you hide from actually doing it.
Speaker:For example, you just know that you have to publish this video, build
Speaker:that product, pitch, that video to your boss, but you hide from it
Speaker:because resistance has sent you fear.
Speaker:This type of resistance is a great compass for the things we should be doing.
Speaker:When it kicks in, we know we're onto something.
Speaker:The fear is there precisely because it matters so much to us.
Speaker:The second type of resistance is sort of the opposite.
Speaker:It's knowing that you need to stay away from doing something.
Speaker:But everyone keeps telling you that you should be doing it.
Speaker:And often it sounds perfectly reasonable when they say it.
Speaker:You should relaunch your website.
Speaker:You should redesign your logo.
Speaker:You should use that you marketing trend, you should be on Tik Tok.
Speaker:It works for others, so why shouldn't it work for you?
Speaker:And yet, your gut tells you that something is off.
Speaker:It just doesn't feel right.
Speaker:Somehow, you know, it's not right although you probably can pinpoint exactly why.
Speaker:But still, this type of resistance is a great compass for the
Speaker:things we shouldn't be doing.
Speaker:When it kicks in, we know we should run.
Speaker:The doubt was there because it wasn't true to who we are.
Speaker:The art, of course, is in knowing which kind of resistance you're in.
Speaker:A great first step is to start noticing it.
Speaker:When you notice resistance, then pay attention to how you feel, the patterns in
Speaker:your thinking, and of course, the outcome.